- Jan 22, 2004
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Especially when you're having problems with your mate. Some people chose to bad-mouth their mate when there are problems to make it seem like they are the victims. They want someone to tell them that they're right and that they should leave. All this while making the other mate look stupid at family gatherings and things like that. IMO, if you have to ask everyone else what you should do in your relationship...then you're probably not mature enough to be in one.