Black Relationships : Here's Why Black Women Should Stop Complaining About the Male/Female Ratio

[Kemetstry]

You heard?

Post some actual data.

Look it up for once





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[JenaBee63]

The whole idea of me courting a guy rubs me the wrong way. I am thinking that if a BW approaches a BM he will interpret it to mean you are making a sexual advance toward him. Also, you have set a precedence. He will become lackadaisical in his role as a man From then on you will be wearing the pants in the relationship. For some people I guess that would be great. But, not me. I am more traditional. I am drawn to Alpha Males. And, I don't have a feminist bone in my body. I prefer traditional roles almost from top to bottom

I did approach a guy once. And, I don't even know if the way I did it really counts. But, it turned out well. This guy was so handsome. I did my little smile thing. He smiled back but that was all. As I was leaving, something alien in me said, "Girl, you better go back in that store and say something to that man, do not let this one get aŵay. " I had never approached a stranger, but there was something about him that I couldn't resist. So, I waited for him to finish his business, then I asked him if he would give me a ride up the hill to my Fathers house. So, there I go getting in the car with a complete stranger. But, it turned out really well. He was the nicest guy. Very generous, respectful, and just, fine, fine, fine. Within six months of dating, he proposed!

Likewise. I just feel that many men are so watered down already. Too wimpy. Want women to do everything. I am primarily speaking of younger cats. Older men as far as approaching me, they still hold to the traditional values. I enjoy that aspect.

 

[JenaBee63]

LOL.... I think I know 3 of them, and its funny because I almost posted the exact same words you posted.Do you know all 4, or just 3?

I have no idea what it means. I may have to try and google it.

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

I have no idea what it means. I may have to try and google it.

'Find em, Feel em, **** em and Forget em'........like i said jr high stuff

 

[JenaBee63]

'Find em, Feel em, **** em and Forget em'........like i said jr high stuff

Lions and Tigers and Bears....oh MY!!
Thanks James.