Black Relationships : Should Men Pay For Dates?

Kemetstry

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Naw, she just learned what he was about before anything became serious. It was actually a win for her, even if I feel her actions in response to the situation were a bit stereotypical. Better to peep out a user before any real emotional and physical investment is made in the person, then to find out later after you are already in a relationship with the person.


Mookie don't care. His goals were met. Until sisters learn that one truth, nothing will change. Moreover, he's moved on. She's still talking about it





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Liberty

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Nothing of what you said to Shaka supports your position of hardwired differences. Bringing beauty to his providing and protecting? You feel those are hardwired aspects of males and females? You need to show me some actual information that supports your points. Weren't you the one that made a post about MGTOW? That phenomena hints at the fact that certain roles are played with an agreement of participation by each gender. Those guys feel women are not playing their part, and so they have decided to leave the game and let women fend for themselves.

Your concepts do not hold up to scrutiny, and so you resort to an ad hominem attacks and unsupported assertions. If you can't accept disagreement with your beliefs, then you probably should not expose your beliefs to scrutiny. Attacking a person who disagrees with you and going so far as to state I am a women because I disagree with you betrays your immaturity.
The reason I say there are hardwired differences in women that make them different from men is because these things were prevalent even during prehistoric days, in almost all ancient societies that I know of. Men were hunters and gatherers, and even warriors. They provided, and protected for their homes. Women tended to be domesticators. They organize and beautify the home.

"Energies" is just a word I chose to use. Many biologists refer to the hormonal differences in men and women due to levels of estrogen and testosterone. Testosterone is believe by many to cause men to be more aggressive than women in general, among other things.

So, I am not saying that these things are the basis of a good relationship, as you have insinuated that I have. My point was that there are some things that are common in almost all women, likewise somethings are found in most all men. I never said that a man should mate with a woman based on these attributes alone or vice versa, as they are not unique. The whole point was that men and women bring different things to the table.
 

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Naw, she just learned what he was about before anything became serious. It was actually a win for her, even if I feel her actions in response to the situation were a bit stereotypical. Better to peep out a user before any real emotional and physical investment is made in the person, then to find out later after you are already in a relationship with the person.

And what about the 'what if's' .

You don't seem to take that into consideration.

What YOU need to do is just STFU!!.
 

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