Black Relationships : Should A Woman Make Her Man's Plate?

[Queenie]

I don't understand, Queen. Are you saying that you fix your man's plate, but, you just don't think it is an obligation?

I'll refer back to your earlier post when you responded by saying, you would fix your man's plate, not out of a sense of obligation, but it's driven by what's in your heart (sorry, I'm paraphrasing here). That's what I interpreted what you meant. I feel the same way. The topic question was phrased using the word "should" a woman fix her man's plate, and I interpret that to mean, is she obligated by some outside set of circumstances to do that. Should? No. Based on a sense of caring and compassion and her choice? Yes.

Did I answer your question, sis?

 

[Liberty]

I'll refer back to your earlier post when you responded by saying, you would fix your man's plate, not out of a sense of obligation, but it's driven by what's in your heart (sorry, I'm paraphrasing here). That's what I interpreted what you meant. I feel the same way. The topic question was phrased using the word "should" a woman fix her man's plate, and I interpret that to mean, is she obligated by some outside set of circumstances to do that. Should? No. Based on a sense of caring and compassion and her choice? Yes.

Did I answer your question, sis?

Yes. OK, I get it. I agree.

*smile*