Black Relationships : Should Men Pay For Dates?

[Kemetstry]

If he's courting her, then yes. If he chose where the date would take place, then yes. If he's a gentleman, then yes.

If he's Kemetstry, however, then no. Never date Kem, even if he's paying.

Hater





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[Kemetstry]

Wait, so you're saying if she asks you out, she doesn't get to decide where to take your raggedy, beggin', charity case behind?

As usual, you misinterpret everything. Some of you ask the guy out and then try to dictate where he's suppose to take them




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[Kemetstry]

Why you lyin'.

There have already been other brothers in here that verified what I've said, NAH!!!





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[Kemetstry]

No, I wouldn't want to ask a guy out on a date. I might get my flirt on though. But, I don't want a man who doesn't have the confidence to ask. And, I don't want to set the precedence of me wearing the pants in the relationship.

I did this once. I didn't like having to initiate everything.

You do realize that most guys with that confidence fall in the Mookie category?




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[Kemetstry]

What I have done is ask the guys I was with if they would take me certain places... Does that count? Or for gifts I would buy tickets to concerts or other events.

And, the guy that I mentioned... I asked him to take me out, but he always paid.

*smile*

No, that's you trying to dictate what I'm suppose to pay for





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