Black Relationships : should married men still go to clubs?

[4KT]

What does anyone think of a married man still going out to clubs all night from Saturday night until Sunday 7:00am once a week despite his wife's objections?

Absolutely not!!!

 

[4KT]

married men still clubbing

The reason I ask is that this is my current situation in my marriage. We have been married about seven years, have two minor children, and his 21 year old son, and he continues to go to clubs once a week from Saturday night until Sunday 7:00am. His reason is to hang out with his friends, two are married and one is not married but in a relationship with his baby's mother, and to just be in the environment. he swears he is not cheating. I do not like the club scene but he has not wanted me to go with him. as I write this I know it sounds obvious what is going on but I still want to believe him. So this is why I present this to my black community, as a sister trying to stay committed to my vows and stick through the marriage but still needs a reality check from anyone willing to respond.
God Bless

I know first hand from my parent's marriage, he is not going out to the clubs to "hang out with his friends".

 

[KingWaynePharaoh]

NO!

 

[Shikamaru]

What does anyone think of a married man still going out to clubs all night from Saturday night until Sunday 7:00am once a week despite his wife's objections?

Fools rush in where wise men fear to tread .....

 

[info-moetry]

if he's married and still going to clubs without his wife and it's not a special occassion, like a friend's b-day or sumtin' then something is lacking in his maturity level, or at home..

Either way, No! He should be home with his wife on saturday night with the lights down low, candles lit and G or Luther playin' in the backround. Big Luther though!