Black Relationships : should married men still go to clubs?

[cherryblossom]

No married man or wife should go out and stay out ALL night long, supposedly "at a club," and especially not EVERY weekend at that!

That is totally disrespectful.

And it don't take ALL night to do anything!

What also concerns me in your situation is, if he's hanging out all night long, how much quality time is he spending with YOU and his children on the weekends?

I know married men and women who get with friends to eat, drink and play cards or dominoes. But, they do it at someone's HOUSE and they rotate the "hosting" house from month-to-month. But none of these husbands and wives are staying out ALL NIGHT LONG at the club! They stay until the "party" fizzles itself out and the others go home, and this only happens once a month, not every weekend!

I so hope you find the fortitude to address this matter with your husband and resolve it in the best possible way for you and your children.

 

[Nasheed]

Sistah

Based on what you have presented here in my opinion he is wrong but there is always two sides to every story. There may be alot of variables not mentioned here that are contributing factors to your current situation.
IMHO, I think you should sit down and discuss your concerns with your husband. If that doesnt work, put the love of self and your kids first. You will do whatever you need to after that.
I wish you the best in this situation.

 

[MsInterpret]

What does anyone think of a married man still going out to clubs all night from Saturday night until Sunday 7:00am once a week despite his wife's objections?

NO...A man who is married should stay his butt out of a club...A club is for meeting and possibly hooking up...there's extreme temptations in the club....If he wants a drink he can drink at home...He wants to dance he can take his wife to a nice place to dance...

The men that I've met in the club that were married are sneeeeeeeeeaky...They're in their hitting on women knowing he's got a ring on his finger...

Stay yo butt HOME! Where your crusty behind belongs....

 

[Ankhur]

What does anyone think of a married man still going out to clubs all night from Saturday night until Sunday 7:00am once a week despite his wife's objections?

If I used the apropriate language to describe such a boy, I would be banned!

 

[blackeyes]

not if he my man