Black Relationships : in a battle to make a younger sista in my beloved woman

[TheLittleOne]

I too have been a fool for love. You live and you learn. Get big $ and power because that's all these females really pay attention to.

 

[Asomfwaa]

I'm on guard for women with White friends.

Do not be surprised if this woman is actually mediocre.

Were I you, I'd indulge in self-improvement then see if improved I still find this woman interesting. At some point you don't.

Though, there's something noble about taking this woman from White friends. Make that your purpose hereafter.

 

[info-moetry]

never mind the post........ill see this to the end....thanks.....no im no mormon.......

Wheeeeewwwwwww..........there is hope for you yet.

But if that female you are going thru the 'tests' for shows up with the initials C.T.R. anywhere on her shirt or as a tattoo on her arm, holla at me before you take your next 'test'.

 

[Keita Kenyatta]

Even I am at awe. September of 2011, I made my way to Atlanta, Ga from Tampa, FL to live with my brother and find work. I was not aware of what I was getting too. From Septemeber to March, a young lady, from my church has made it blunt and clear she wishes to be my woman. According to the dating rules, I am not seen as a nice guy" but a man. This sista is VERY beautiful: 5' 6'' from LA, very very slender. So slender and beautiful, a lot of her white freinds are very upset with her for choosing me for her new man because i am much bigger, stronger, and older than her, 10 years older. March 2012, I had to play the game (Friends vs Lovers), a bowling game, she and the other nice guys created for me to choose her or friends. the game was rigged but i won anyway. now i am on the test. she has no idea, how much emotion pain, burning passion, anxiety, and fear, she has put in me. So far, i am on the 4th month of the test. If get her, i will not touch her untill she changes her last name and marriage. Honestly, she made me feel very possessive of her, very hungry for her, very wanting/psycho for her. I am even jealous FOR her. Only a black woman would do this to fire up a black man's jealous FOR her. I'm not interested in hurting her. if i could buy her for myself...i would. I have figured out she is waiting for september to start the official relationship. I have to go to church every day because that is what she want and also if I'm not there, she becomes very sad and upset. i go to church already...but this is the direction she wants. the test keeps changing adding strange new games and twists....but ill survive.

Please tell me that you're in your 20's??? I said that because if you're in your 30's or older, I can't see you being as confused, lost and emotionally unbalanced as your letter reveals you to be. Then to top it off, you ran into a planters pistachio that's promoting or fueling the issues that you already have within yourself. For a second, I actually thought that your write up was going to turn into some porno with all your "anxiety, burning passion, hunger, possessiveness, psycho for her babble.

 

[Destee]

Even I am at awe. September of 2011, I made my way to Atlanta, Ga from Tampa, FL to live with my brother and find work. I was not aware of what I was getting too. From Septemeber to March, a young lady, from my church has made it blunt and clear she wishes to be my woman. According to the dating rules, I am not seen as a nice guy" but a man. This sista is VERY beautiful: 5' 6'' from LA, very very slender. So slender and beautiful, a lot of her white freinds are very upset with her for choosing me for her new man because i am much bigger, stronger, and older than her, 10 years older. March 2012, I had to play the game (Friends vs Lovers), a bowling game, she and the other nice guys created for me to choose her or friends. the game was rigged but i won anyway. now i am on the test. she has no idea, how much emotion pain, burning passion, anxiety, and fear, she has put in me. So far, i am on the 4th month of the test. If get her, i will not touch her untill she changes her last name and marriage. Honestly, she made me feel very possessive of her, very hungry for her, very wanting/psycho for her. I am even jealous FOR her. Only a black woman would do this to fire up a black man's jealous FOR her. I'm not interested in hurting her. if i could buy her for myself...i would. I have figured out she is waiting for september to start the official relationship. I have to go to church every day because that is what she want and also if I'm not there, she becomes very sad and upset. i go to church already...but this is the direction she wants. the test keeps changing adding strange new games and twists....but ill survive.

Brother KingWaynePharaoh ... i wish you well with your relationship ... i hope it works for you both.

It's nice to read a Brother professing his love, his hope for a lifelong, dedicated union with the Sister of his choice.

It's almost poetic, the way you've shared it.

Thanks for sharing and Good Luck!

Much Love and Peace.



Destee