Black Relationships : Older & Younger Dating

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  1. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I was recently watching something on television where this 19 year old was dating a 47 year old. Is that too old? She is considered an "adult" by law.

    How come it's more-so viewed wrong for a much older man to date a much younger woman (some say the man is a perv)? But it's more acceptable (shown by society) that an older woman (sometimes called "cougar") to date a much younger man?

    In past times and other cultures older men usually marry much younger women...sometimes into there pre-teens....
     
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    the man is a perv plain and simple. what does a 47 yr old man have in common with a 19 yr old? she's not even old enough to drink. when is was 18 i had a casual relationship with a 32 yr old women with 2 kids, but i a was young man and she knew what i wanted.
     
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    Since men are viewed as predators, it seems like an older man is taking advantage of a younger woman when he dates her.

    Imagine this: A full-grown pit bull attacks a kitten. Who do you side with?

    A cat scratches a dog hairless. Do you really feel sorry for the dog?

    Today, any sexual interaction between those two groups would be termed "statutory rape".
     
  4. MsInterpret

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    It seems so...

    But there are also women predators too.

    Take Mary Kate Lateuerno...Which I have met several times...She preyed on a young boy...And there are others

    Why do older women like to date much younger men? Probably the same reason much older men date young women...Power? :10500:
     
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    It could be power but I think it has more to do with wanting to feel youthful.
     
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    perverted and proud......:slobber:
     
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    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    And the older women? The same as the older men?
     
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    It's all in the youth !
    older women sometime see a younger man as youthful more active and sometime better
    when it comes to wits
    A man on the other hand go after the youth and to have a young twoman on his arms
    sometime to be controling and sexual activities

    In today's time there are so many relationships this way i guess it's in the eye of the beholder
    men are view differently as pose to women is why society accepts it
     
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    I'm totally OK with 47 year old men or women dating 19 year old men or women.

    So long as the 47 or 19 year is not my children that one or the other is dating.

    I ain't gone lie tho, if I can still get it out and done at 47, I'd have no problem bangin a 19 year old.
    My mother and father don't care about that. :toast:
     
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    :run: you gotta catch one first....
     
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