Black Relationships : Battle of the Sexes

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by CarrieMonet, Sep 13, 2004.

  1. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    So many times I come to Destee and it seems as if the men are talking about how messed up the Black women are in their life. They seem to encounter the bottom of the barrell type of woman and think we are all like this. I hear the women complaining too...

    Complaining doesn't really change things and neither does constant negative comments.

    So...I thought it would be nice to create a post that I can come to for positive thoughts. Even if I see something positive stated on another thread, I will copy it and paste it here. I encourage you all to do the same.
     
  2. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Found in topic, why wouldn't brothers date a sistah?
     
  3. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    This one made me smile.

     
  4. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Another quote I like...nice point by the way!
     
  5. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Found in the Black women/white men topic...
     
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    I've never felt a sista a black woman to be of a problem every coin has two
    sides and my heart , love and emotions will always be upon the grace of a
    black woman i can't even dream of any other beside my sistas these same
    women are our true treasures the black pearl of essence and we must know
    these are our mother's mother mother's sistas daughters and soulmates open
    blind eye and see the real true beauty of a black woman .
     
  7. bigtown

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    I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SISTAS. US BROTHAS NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH THEM AND PUT THEM AT EASE. BROTHAS TEND TO FORGET THAT SISTAS HAVE RACE ISSUES TOO, ON TOP OF ABANDONMENT ISSUES. IT'S PART OF OUR JOB IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO PUT THEM AT EASE AND LET THEM KNOW WE GON' HANDLE BUSINESS. JUST AS IT'S THERE JOB TO UNDERSTAND US AS MEN AND GIVE US A PEACEFUL WOMAN IN OUR LIVES. THE SISTAS BE WAY COOL WITH ME.


    THAT'S MY "BIG" OPINION.
     
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    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Nice comments!
     
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    I think all men are bound to experiencing problems with women, I usually talk about the problems I have with black women because they are the ones I date the most.

    I am pretty sure they have issues with me as well. I know I am not an innoccent guy here either.
     
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    O.K. MAN, SAY SOMETHING NICE NOW.
     
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