So many times I come to Destee and it seems as if the men are talking about how messed up the Black women are in their life. They seem to encounter the bottom of the barrell type of woman and think we are all like this. I hear the women complaining too... Complaining doesn't really change things and neither does constant negative comments. So...I thought it would be nice to create a post that I can come to for positive thoughts. Even if I see something positive stated on another thread, I will copy it and paste it here. I encourage you all to do the same.