In all due candor and honesty, in spite of the truly conscious sisters, so many are no different than their white counterparts, also expect far too much on the basis of far too little, as well as reflection more illusions ad naseum on that basis, too...
Most white females etc. don't put our or their business out there as a given, which is why they and their menfolk can or will play us all cheap and/or close, etc.
Do keep that in mind too...
FYI