There is a burden and undeniable guilt that black men all across this nation, this world must carry and atone for someday, and that is the choices made against their history and black women. When I see black women growing up angry and confused, I blame black fathers for leaving us. When I see young black men escaping to the streets for comfort, I blame absent black men. And when I see our prison system crammed to the brink of black men, I go back once again to the breakdown of black families that let Jr. down. Generation after generation, after generation of this ****. Here we are in the 21st century, with a black man in the white house and black people still carrying the dead weight of slavery, white worship and ******** on our backs. Today, we got black men who can't even phantom being valuable unless they have white women on their arms, causing black women to literally prostitute themselves for a one night stand with hit and run players. These women suffer from a lack of self esteem, self love and self worth and I blame black men for this. I was checking out Black Planet and all you have is sista after sista pawning herself off in the hopes of attracting that one black guy who is sincere and wanting......its the saddest site I've ever seen on the internet. Am I advocating that bm date us only? No, but I am hoping that men who bring black girls into the world, stick around long enough so she can have a since of what true black male love is all about. As it stands now, too many young black women are growing up and old without ever finding or experiencing true black love and that's sad. Your thoughts?