Panafrica
Wonderful response.
I myself was unsure how to address sister foxi without offending her, but sometimes you have to just put the truth out there and pray that your true intention, which is to help is understood and taken as just that and brother Pan you did it well. Thank you
Sister foxi,
I'm always troubled when I see our youth misguided and miseducated on life especially when they are so young and havn't even brushed the surface on LIFE yet. Several things you said took me back.
(foxi)
I would have an affair with a married man. He would be the one sinning not me.
(nita)
Why @ your age you think it's ok to mess with a married man I may never know. You are sinning too sister. Exodus 20:14 says thou shalt not commit adultery. If you read the 17th verse in that same chapter is says Thou shalt not covet (want what belongs to another) thy neighbour's house, wife, servants, on nor @ss, nor anything that is thy neighbour's.
For those that think neighbor is just the person next door to you, Webster's New Dictionary of The English Language defines neighbor as living or located near another, and FELLOWMAN.
Not only that foxi, premarital sex is a sin. I myself was guilty of it in my past and it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Please read Genesis chapter 34: 1-34.
(foxi)
I don't think marriage is good anyway because it's like you're lying to God.
(nita)
Proverbs 18:22 says
He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
If God sees marriage as good, and gives me favor for being married, then it has to be something VERY good and not bad like you say. Just think of the blessing you are going to miss out on. Before all this stuff happened between my husband and I, we were so blessed. I can't tell you how many times God made a way for us, or how many gifts and blessings popped up outta no where. On top of our health and strength, children and family, we were given a new car, a new washing machine and dryer, and one day @ church we got a check that someone had asked to be given to us, from God only knows who for $500. My husband who lost both kidneys got a kidney. Our daughter and I almost died during birth, the nurses were asking me if I had anything I wanted to tell my family, the doctor was in a frenzy from all the blood that was pouring from my body but God stepped in. Blessings, that's what I want...give me favor anyday.
(foxi)
I had one step to me about 2 years ago. I was 15. He wanted to be my sugar daddy. He owned a grovery store and his wife was part owner. I didn't take him up but after I saw what he did for my friend I was like " dang, why didn't I do it when I had a chance?" (then I remembered why, his wife ended up taking the store and the kids) I know that it is very hurting to the family but you're not thinking about that when he whines and dines you with his check. You're worrying about yourself and only yourself. And that's the real deal. It's a risky deal because you never know how the wife will react but sometimes it good enough to take that chance.
(nita)
foxi...smh
If you know this may be hurting a family, why would you continue to do it???
The life and feelings of a human being is much more valuable than a Value meal, or for a steak @ the Sizzler...and a few dollars baby...smh
What benefit to this world are you if all you want to do is gain for yourself?
(foxi)
I will take a man for all he is worth because he is like you were saying "just trying to get in my drawz". I let a man know from the start what I'm about. If he's going to be using me then I might as well use him. It's just like that for me.
(nita)
Brother khasm pretty much covered the generalization of all men in one category. You can't assume all men are the same. That they are just out to play you because that's just not true. There are many good men out there.
Even if a man tries to use you two wrongs don't make anything right, aren't you worth more than some of his check and a dinner? Then I suggest you start expecting more.
Sister you are young, there is so much more to life that you think.
Peace
Wonderful response.
I myself was unsure how to address sister foxi without offending her, but sometimes you have to just put the truth out there and pray that your true intention, which is to help is understood and taken as just that and brother Pan you did it well. Thank you
Sister foxi,
I'm always troubled when I see our youth misguided and miseducated on life especially when they are so young and havn't even brushed the surface on LIFE yet. Several things you said took me back.
(foxi)
I would have an affair with a married man. He would be the one sinning not me.
(nita)
Why @ your age you think it's ok to mess with a married man I may never know. You are sinning too sister. Exodus 20:14 says thou shalt not commit adultery. If you read the 17th verse in that same chapter is says Thou shalt not covet (want what belongs to another) thy neighbour's house, wife, servants, on nor @ss, nor anything that is thy neighbour's.
For those that think neighbor is just the person next door to you, Webster's New Dictionary of The English Language defines neighbor as living or located near another, and FELLOWMAN.
Not only that foxi, premarital sex is a sin. I myself was guilty of it in my past and it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Please read Genesis chapter 34: 1-34.
(foxi)
I don't think marriage is good anyway because it's like you're lying to God.
(nita)
Proverbs 18:22 says
He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
If God sees marriage as good, and gives me favor for being married, then it has to be something VERY good and not bad like you say. Just think of the blessing you are going to miss out on. Before all this stuff happened between my husband and I, we were so blessed. I can't tell you how many times God made a way for us, or how many gifts and blessings popped up outta no where. On top of our health and strength, children and family, we were given a new car, a new washing machine and dryer, and one day @ church we got a check that someone had asked to be given to us, from God only knows who for $500. My husband who lost both kidneys got a kidney. Our daughter and I almost died during birth, the nurses were asking me if I had anything I wanted to tell my family, the doctor was in a frenzy from all the blood that was pouring from my body but God stepped in. Blessings, that's what I want...give me favor anyday.
(foxi)
I had one step to me about 2 years ago. I was 15. He wanted to be my sugar daddy. He owned a grovery store and his wife was part owner. I didn't take him up but after I saw what he did for my friend I was like " dang, why didn't I do it when I had a chance?" (then I remembered why, his wife ended up taking the store and the kids) I know that it is very hurting to the family but you're not thinking about that when he whines and dines you with his check. You're worrying about yourself and only yourself. And that's the real deal. It's a risky deal because you never know how the wife will react but sometimes it good enough to take that chance.
(nita)
foxi...smh
If you know this may be hurting a family, why would you continue to do it???
The life and feelings of a human being is much more valuable than a Value meal, or for a steak @ the Sizzler...and a few dollars baby...smh
What benefit to this world are you if all you want to do is gain for yourself?
(foxi)
I will take a man for all he is worth because he is like you were saying "just trying to get in my drawz". I let a man know from the start what I'm about. If he's going to be using me then I might as well use him. It's just like that for me.
(nita)
Brother khasm pretty much covered the generalization of all men in one category. You can't assume all men are the same. That they are just out to play you because that's just not true. There are many good men out there.
Even if a man tries to use you two wrongs don't make anything right, aren't you worth more than some of his check and a dinner? Then I suggest you start expecting more.
Sister you are young, there is so much more to life that you think.
Peace