Black Relationships : Dating Someone Who is Married But Separated

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  1. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Have you been involved with someone who is married but separated? How did it go? For those who wouldn't get involved with someone who is married but separated, why not? What I mean by separated is them not living together, not even speaking to one another until they get the money to get a divorce.
     
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    I would not want to be involved with this type of person for the following reasons.

    • He could be using this as stalling tactic..keep procastinating ..not wanting to get divorce
    • The possibility exists that he and his wife could reunite. He could be separated just to think things through.
    • Legally the man is still married
     
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    It aint divorced






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    Nope whats the point? I dont even see what the purpose they shouldnt even be seriously looking for any one until after the divorce, for the same reasons as dunwiddat said.
     
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    what show are you watching Legit? Are you watching the Maury Show?
     
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    Ms. Vera...your picture looks great:)
     
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    Yes I have. The first time was with a co worker. She was separated and it got too intense so I had to break it off.

    I'm presently involved with a long time friend who is separated, filed for her divorce two weeks ago. Taking things real slow even though we have talked about renting a house together.
     
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    lmao i thought the maury show's main focus was who is the father of the baby lol
     
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    No I would not date a man who is separated....They are still married...I've heard excuses from men who are separated like...I don't wanna pay alimony, child support, she has bad credit, she won't let me, we don't live together I have my own spot and she has hers, I don't have feelings for her any more, I'm still married because of the kids....All sorts of stuff.

    There's enough single men in the world.
     
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