Black Parenting : Whipping And Spanking Our Children!

[Khasm13]

i've had to step in both my niece and nephews @ss in the past....
growing up i had 11 aunts and at least 6-7 of them got in my @ss when i was actin up....
thas how we do...

the unfortunate thing about being a specialist in anything is that it intrinsically steals away objectivity from viewing other disciplines...

ex: u see very few medical doctors that will agree with holistic health practices....

thank u aunties....

one love
khasm

 

[Kemetstry]

I'm not a bible thumper, but if you say so.


Anyhoot, I am talking about the reasons why we spank or hit our children, we learned that from white people or acquired that from white people. After slavery, most of the beatings our children got was done out of fear that if we didn't put fear into them, white people would sure enough kill them. If we did not beat them for their negative behavior (playing around with white folks) for not realizing that we lived in a (white world which hated black skin) white folks would be more than happy to take matters to the extreme to make sure that we understood this. If Emmett Till had lived through the beating he had incurred from white folks for whistling at a white girl, he probably would not have had enough time to recuperate, before he had gotten another beating for even thinking to do such a thing during the time that he had done it. A lot of us spank or whip our children also because we saw how white kids disrespected their parents and how our children saw this as well. Before our children even began to get the idea that disrespecting ones parents was perfectly normal, we had to show them that in no way was that the case, you will respect your elders. As a result, because white people want for everyone to follow in their footsteps like lost sheep, a law was set which stated that parents can no longer spank, whip or use corporal punishment on their children as a way to discipline. Even if the child seemed to be okay, teachers would look for so called signs of abuse in order so that they could remove the black child from it's black home.


Astrologer4I

Then we will agree to disagree on the origins of spanking. As I stated, we were spanking them long before slavery. If anything, we taught whites how to discipline their own.

 

[Astrologer4U]

Then we will agree to disagree on the origins of spanking. As I stated, we were spanking them long before slavery. If anything, we taught whites how to discipline their own.

Well finally we agree on something. Yes, black people we did teach white people, as they have taught them everything, how to discipline their own children.



Astrologer4U

 

[blkbutterfly41]

Then we will agree to disagree on the origins of spanking. As I stated, we were spanking them long before slavery. If anything, we taught whites how to discipline their own.

lol , You are so right !!!


We have been spanking our children way before there was an caucasion race.

 

[MsInterpret]

The one thing I do have an issue with is my daughter's dad's wife spanking my child.

Do you think it's wrong if your child's father's/mother's spouse spanks your child?