Black People : Sandra Bullock adopt's Black Baby

No...I don't dig. White people ARE "the system", so what would you classify as 'the inside' for them? Black folks who'd bother adopting them would spend more time catering to them than getting them to turn against themselves as a collective. So, again, I say...please. There is no changing an inherently flawed system....changing it into what? Folks been talking about changing the system from within for ages....can you point to any that have done it? For drug addicts who seek to recover, would it be advisable for them to surround themselves with addicts NOT seeking such change? It would be a RARE soul who wouldn't be quickly reabsorbed back into the old culture. The only thing we need to do is get ourselves in order and work on getting and keeping OUR own children.

Just tossin up ideas. Gotta start somewhere. It only took a handfull of years for whites to manipulate their way into Africa and out with every resource including us in boats. The border of every African country was created by whites to serve their own purpose. Gotta think big my man. There is a fatal flaw in white society. The relationship between wm and ww is at an all time low and ww view themselves as empowered for divorcing and not getting married. Get a couple hundred of our abopted white troopers to get a degree in performing abortions, remember their birth rate is already low, and invest in putting our little white troopers in law school to advocate a single woman culture of empowerment all the while cheerleading for every celeb that gets a divorce and making money off court fees that accumilate in divorce court. "You go girl, dump that controling no good man and don't let him tell you what to do!" You are simply not malicious and ill willed enough my man. You gotta be evil and vindictive. Kindness gets you knowhere. Ya Dig now?
 
NO,
Barack Obama was abandoned by his Kenyan father.
He was raised by the white half of his people. This was not a case of White people rigging a situation and then presenting themselves as heroes/saviors. The real is...his Black parent abandoned him while his White half stepped up.

You did not mention the the other example I used, Micheal Orr. If we cannot give credit where credit is due, that's a problem in and of itself. We cannot solve problems by looking for a scape goat or someone to blame them on. White people don't make Black people concieve children that they don't want or are not prepared to provide for and nurture.

Some of our problems simply need us to change our behavior. No amount of blaming others or looking for a "deeper" meaning will solve the problem. In fact, it only perpetuates it.

Actually Mr Obama's daddy was 22 and his mommy was a teeny bopper of 16 when he was conceived. Hussein would look really strange in the middle of Kansas trying to burp Barak in front of his racist granny. I do believe she would have a heart attack.:SuN049:
 
Black behavior is a problem but it is also black society structured in a Euro style that is killing us. Most prosperous tribes in Africa, the Himba for example, are small villages of farming and cattle raising people. The divorce rate in my little hick town is absurdly low. About 70% of pepes stay together till their 50s or life. We are not metroplex people. Everywhere in Africa where there is a major city, there is major poverty. ----------------------- So get your black booties back to the sticks and grow something:car:. You know there are to many fleshly gratifications in the city. No marriage will work. The mark of a great people is their ability of man and woman to work along with one another and not declare this stupid independence we hear so much of.
 
This phenomenon has cool factor and trend written all over it, and it hurts.

Somewhat recently, I attended the birthday party of a boy who had been adopted from Ethiopia by a white woman and her husband, who already had a biological daughter.

Before we went to the party, I thought, "Surely, we won't be the only black people there." Sure enough, we were. I felt so bad, so sorry for this boy, who is in the midst of a family who thinks they can adequately raise him, yet they have no authentic or deep inroads with black folks.

In the 1970s, an association of black social workers said that cross-racial adoption should not be permitted for black kids, that studies show it does not bode well for their psyche, self-esteem and related concerns. They have softened their stance over the last few decades, but there is still a strong ambivalence and caution about it.

I see more and more white people walking around with black babies all the time.

FullSpeed made a good point -
we need to ask why these black parents are putting these children in the position to end up like this?
Not only the biological parents, but where are the extended families that potentially could have stepped in before the child entered the system and/or was raised by people who really have little clue?

I have written about this before on my blog, blackmarriedmomma.com and reeived some interesting insights from a few readers who tried to adopt, but were turned away at every advance. Apparently, there is resistance systemically and institutionally in the social services field when it comes to us adopting our own. We may be screened more harshly, denied more readily or are more apt to be put on hold indefinitely.

Truly if you follow my wisdom you will learn. Black women follow their flesh more than any other women. In order to draw man to this flesh, she has learned to clap her bootie cheeks which are much rounder than other women's in case you didn't notice. This is a nice site in deed, but it has a deadly drawback. It causes man only desire to be with her sexually. No foundation is ever built in 88.8% of black "hook ups". This begets a society of high abortion rates and unwanted children. Look at the # of street children in Africa and the islands.How many street kids you seen in Japan or Germany? Many U.S. blacks are just street children the law forced their mamaz to raise. This is clearly a sign of people gratifying their flesh and being led by their desires and carnal nature(animalistic). No foundation, no future.Just that simple.-------------------------------------------------------- Overall, black men gotta stop hooking up with booty poppin gutta sl*ts and seek a stronger relationship built on trust, knowing your partner inside and out,finacial stability, and planning a positive route for offspring. We shall always be over ran with unwanted thugs until this happens.
 

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