Black Relationships : R Married Men Eligible Bachelors?

[sweettee29]

JUST CHECKING SOME OF THE OLD POST AND THIS ONE SURELY CAUGHT MY EYE, AS FAR AS MARRIED AND TAKEN MEN ARE CONCERNED I FEEL THEY ARE DEFINATLY NOT AVAILABLE. WOMEN WHO LOOK AT MEN MORE WHEN THEY ARE WITH THEIR WOMAN ARE DEAD, DEAD WRONG! POINT BLANK PERIOD. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF, THESE MEN BELONG TO SOMEONE ELSE.RESPECT THAT! EVEN THOUGH THE MAN MIGHT COME ON TO YOU, WE AS WOMEN CAN DEFINATELY PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE. IF WE RESIST THERE MAY BE MORE SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES AND LESS INFIDELITY.

AS FOR THE MEN, THE THING THAT MAKES ME MAD IS THAT YOU FIND MORE MEN WHO ARE WILLING TO DOWN TALK THEIR WIFE JUST TO GET YOU TO BUY INTO ALL THE BS SO YOU WILL FIND THEM INTERESTING ENOUGH OR TAKE PITY ON THEM AND BEGIN A "SECRET LOVE", AND THEY TRY TO GET YOU TO HAVE SOME SORT OF ANIMOSITY WITH THE WIFE. WHEN THE TRUTH IS 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 WE DON'T EVEN KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THAT LADY. THE MAIN QUESTION THAT I ASK IS, IF SHE WAS ALL OF THAT,THEN WHY IN THE HELL DID YOU MARRY HER? SHE WAS GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU TO TAKE VOWS WITH. CORRECT? PERSONALLY I WILL NOT BE 2ND BEHIND ANY ONE AND I DON'T WANT ANY ONE COMING 2ND BEHIND ME. THERE IS A RESPECT FACTOR THAT GOES ALONG WITH MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS AND WE AS A PEOPLE MAN OR WOMAN NEED TO COMPLY.

FEEL ME!

SWEETTEE, LOVE

 

[cursed heart]

Because you appear to be happy and comfortable.
Confident and loved and that within itself is attractive to the opposite sex.
You see when you are single you are looking for someone to be looking for you.