Black Relationships : Feeling Smothered?

[MANASIAC]

I wish someone who I was fond of, would smother my black A** Instead they give me 1 trillion feet.

 

[CarrieMonet]

MANASIAC,
You crack me up!

 

[$$RICH$$]

but what do we or many feel is too close or being smothered ??

is it when your mate seem to be always beside you
or because they can't speak freely or is it that when
time come to be with friends he/she seem to get mad or don't
want you to go out without them is it that the mate always
bugging you????

how do we know if we are smothering our mate in a relationship???

what is the best way to really get a point across that this a problem
and can cause a future break up because the space is not given or
you seem traped ????

 

[watzinaname]

I guess the best way is to be honest with your mate and with yourself. Do the two really spend enough time together? Is there something that is bugging you about the spouse, that you are trying to avoid, so you avoid him or her? Seems the best way is to talk it out, without being insulting.

 

[$$RICH$$]

sometime that don't work or seem like the message not going through
i've seen it too many times until anger speaks out or a simple break up!
but being honest is the key but most of all being true to your self .......