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In 2005 I moved to Dallas and was substitute teaching about half of the time I was there. Worked in a northern suburb (Frisco) which is relatively affluent. It was an interesting experience because I found that my east-side lost angeles, west coast dialect was actually considered "proper" to most Texans I interacted with. After awhile I used to catch myself as my dialect started changing to an 'informal' mode which to me was awkward because I times I would have to deal with administrators who also were from different parts of the country whose dialect was less informal. Most of the Black administrators I interacted with, who were local Texans, seemed to be very cautios to speak 'standard' english which seemed a way for the listener to not detect their origins. I actually had one sister explain this to me.
Working at a 7/11 one summer i got to experience the 'red neck' language up close because oftentimes they would come in asking for tobacco products and i could hardly understand what they were talking about. Since many of the customers were return clientele i quickly remembered their purchasing patterns which helped alot but they would crack me up at times.
Back to los angeles. I used to date women who would always ask where i was from. I often had folks tell me i sounded like i was from Brooklyn or that i sounded 'eastie'. I still dont know what that means but i used to be a musician and most of my hometown musician friends all had left lost angeles and moved to europe and/or new york and then returned back to la before moving on elsewhere. Usually back to new york. I guess i got so comfortable around them i never detected any changes in dialect until i started self-checking and foun that i was picking up some regional dialect batterns which indeed were east coast. I think that i got that also the more time i spent with my daughter who was born in la, raised in atl, and attended graduate school at columbia...and her mother was raised in bk.
When I first move to this area I had this guy with a strong "southern drawl" tell me "you talk better than any Black man I ever met" to which I responded, "Thank you, You have about an average southern redneck drawl" He said "Hey, I wasn't tryin' to be racist, I was tryin' to compliment you" I said, "What? Do you consider my assessment of your speech pattern racist?" He thought about it for a second then said "I guess I did sound racist, sorry"