Black Spirituality Religion : Black Man...did you tell a 乃lack ❤oman she's 乃eautiful today?

To make sure: NNQueen jamesfrmphilly









What james is expressing NNQueen, whether rightly or wrongly, is that most brothers on site take exception with the unevenness factor of this brothers exaltation toward our Queens only; without which ever giving similar props and or encouragement to the brother Kings. It is this discrepancy alone, of uneven gesturing, to which james is largely referring.


To not to be a brother King, looking in from the outside, will cause great difficulty for most sisters and some brothers to relate with the context within which lies the complaint. In addition, the showing of accolades from one source(this brother), has a tendency to make all other brothers look bad. This analogy easily comes to mind, one apple spoils the whole bunch. So if this one brother disqualifies all other brothers from doing the same, which is the case, when he's constantly telling us that we do not know how to treat our Queens properly, then all brothers outside of this brother is spoiled and soiled by his efforts to lift only our Sisters. If you really think about this, you can see the painted picture, or at least its my understanding of what james is imparting.


Peace In,
Bro. Clyde Coger, I'm not discounting how some men here feel disrespected by Bro. Perfection. I'm of the opinion that perceiving is believing. In general, though, I don't see where he is claiming that Black men aren't important.

I went back to his original thread, The Perfection of Black Women and extracted this comment from his opening statement:

To begin to see Black Women as Perfect beings is to know that Perfection contains many permutations or, shall we say, aspects. My research demonstrates that Black Women are the full constitution of all things which are beautiful, intelligent and sophisticated. What some of us may think we see as "negative" here in the West is a modern construct, smoke and mirrors, you might say, to keep people in general, and Black Women in particular from recognizing her awesome powers.

Does this take away from us as black men? Of course it doesn't. This is not about emotionalism but objective data. Black men are still great. We are still powerful. We are still strong warriors. But we must no longer avoid questioning how and what type of information was admitted into the stream of awareness.

Perfection's theme is uplifting Black women to, what he believes, is our rightful place and, introducing his provocative opinion about the role that Black men play in helping or hindering this from becoming a reality as opposed to a notion without substance.

I believe the parts that I have highlighted carry over into this thread as well. At least I view the two threads to be directly connected and a continuation of his dissertation. So I don't see why he would take the position that Black men, in general, are great in one thread and not great in another. I don't see the contradiction.
 
Bro. Clyde Coger, I'm not discounting how some men here feel disrespected by Bro. Perfection. I'm of the opinion that perceiving is believing. In general, though, I don't see where he is claiming that Black men aren't important.

I went back to his original thread, The Perfection of Black Women and extracted this comment from his opening statement:

To begin to see Black Women as Perfect beings is to know that Perfection contains many permutations or, shall we say, aspects. My research demonstrates that Black Women are the full constitution of all things which are beautiful, intelligent and sophisticated. What some of us may think we see as "negative" here in the West is a modern construct, smoke and mirrors, you might say, to keep people in general, and Black Women in particular from recognizing her awesome powers.

Does this take away from us as black men? Of course it doesn't. This is not about emotionalism but objective data. Black men are still great. We are still powerful. We are still strong warriors. But we must no longer avoid questioning how and what type of information was admitted into the stream of awareness.

Perfection's theme is uplifting Black women to, what he believes, is our rightful place and, introducing his provocative opinion about the role that Black men play in helping or hindering this from becoming a reality as opposed to a notion without substance.

I believe the parts that I have highlighted carry over into this thread as well. At least I view the two threads to be directly connected and a continuation of his dissertation. So I don't see why he would take the position that Black men, in general, are great in one thread and not great in another. I don't see the contradiction.
any practice that elevates sisters above brothers or brothers above sisters, that sets us apart form one another, is counter productive.
 

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