luvmia ...
Thanks for joining us and sharing! I don't have any locations to suggest moving to, i just wanna say that wherever you go, the chances are great that you'll run into some of the same challenges found in Baltimore. On the surface, based on what you've said above, you're leaps and bounds ahead of many Single Black Mothers, in that you have a great profession, one that almost guarantees you the ability to feed, clothe, and shelter your Family without interruption. That's really good. Young Black Men all over the country and world, lack the support they need as young men, it's a devastating situation. I believe the primary concern is that you make sure he has a loving home, with open communication, safe, etc. ... and for 13 years, it appears you've done that ... so keep up the great work! Racism and prejudice are everywhere, i don't know that we can actually move away from it, escape it, etc., though there are probably some places better / worse than others. I'd just hate to see you go from the frying pan to the fire, ya know? The grass always looks greener on the other side, so i've heard. Even if you weren't Muslim, they'd be finding other reasons to hate on you ... maybe make it easier on yourself and Son ... and just move to a better neighborhood within the city, keep your job, and let them folk know (by remaining) that you have as much right to be there, earn a living, care for your child ... as they do ... 'cause all that you've shared thus far about Bmore, can be found in most any city in this country.
Love You and Good Luck on your quest!
Make yourself right at home, because you are.
Destee