- Nov 2, 2009
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That is not our makeup. We view it as having our favorite meal. We savor it. We love differently and a lot deeper. Which why we go ballistic when things dont work out.
I hope you can understand that difference. Sex isnt intimacy to us. It never has been
You gotta be kidding Kem.. Sex isn't intimacy to us? come on now..
context is everything.. and all sex is not all sex.. to say that sex isn't intimacy
because we are men, is just plain wrong.. your sex may not be intimate but
that has nothing to do with being a man.. that has to do with you being Kem..
and your attitude toward your own sex.. I don't share my sex with just
anyone.. and I don't regard it as a transaction.. or as a thing in an of itself..
for me, it's a mode of intimate expression.. it's part of a larger connection
between me and her.. and to my way of thinking.. that's what our sex is for..
and those other concepts, in my opinion, are narcissistic perversions that
turn our sex from something that is synergistic and spiritual into something that
is utilitarian and selfish..
context is everything.. and all sex is not all sex.. to say that sex isn't intimacy
because we are men, is just plain wrong.. your sex may not be intimate but
that has nothing to do with being a man.. that has to do with you being Kem..
and your attitude toward your own sex.. I don't share my sex with just
anyone.. and I don't regard it as a transaction.. or as a thing in an of itself..
for me, it's a mode of intimate expression.. it's part of a larger connection
between me and her.. and to my way of thinking.. that's what our sex is for..
and those other concepts, in my opinion, are narcissistic perversions that
turn our sex from something that is synergistic and spiritual into something that
is utilitarian and selfish..