Black People : Sex Does Not = Relationship

Kemetstry

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Sex isn't the relationship, no more than kissing is. But... it's apart of it.

Actually, that bond should be formed even before a kiss





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Kemetstry

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Kemetstry

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But not before sex?


oooookay....

If you believe in sex before kissing. Because that's not the order I generally see it go





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jamesfrmphilly said:
:qqb009:please don't speak for me......thank you

quote="Kemetstry, post: 843383, member: 46"]You don't have sex anymore. So, this statement at minimum is duplicitous.[/quoteduplicitous? What a word, can any of you now relate to why some cultures just arrange for a teenage couple from suitable families to partner up and try to create a family unit?

Maybe I’m somewhat jaded/didn’t really focus on settling until my late 20’s by which time I’d sampled so many women that I KNEW exactly what I liked, and what I didn’t [still more than a little bit weak for FIT FEMALE FLESH {FFF} TODAY] as highlighted by completely off the chain sexual chemistry with women who are unsuitable in every other way [intellectually/educationally/outlook] with far more suitable much less glamorously packaged women rarely getting my libido up to even half speed, which is where a sexually naive teenager wouldn’t KNOW the difference/be able to compare, would they?

Sex is a relationship/a sexual relationship which might not even be friendly as opposed to commercial [various forms of prostitution] whereby without a financial incentive no sexual intimacy would occur; whereas isn’t what this thread is focused on the fact that in some sexual relationships while the woman might view sex as a sign that she’s in a committed meaningful relationship, the man could be using her as a convenient outlet for his sexual urges while having no intention of EVER committing seriously to her [BTW women can make this play too/happened to me a couple of times]?

Isn’t ANYONE who genuinely believes they are not programmed
graphically illustrating that their programming is COMPLETE?
 

Kemetstry

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jamesfrmphilly said:
:qqb009:please don't speak for me......thank you

quote="Kemetstry, post: 843383, member: 46"]You don't have sex anymore. So, this statement at minimum is duplicitous.[/quoteduplicitous? What a word, can any of you now relate to why some cultures just arrange for a teenage couple from suitable families to partner up and try to create a family unit?

Maybe I’m somewhat jaded/didn’t really focus on settling until my late 20’s by which time I’d sampled so many women that I KNEW exactly what I liked, and what I didn’t [still more than a little bit weak for FIT FEMALE FLESH {FFF} TODAY] as highlighted by completely off the chain sexual chemistry with women who are unsuitable in every other way [intellectually/educationally/outlook] with far more suitable much less glamorously packaged women rarely getting my libido up to even half speed, which is where a sexually naive teenager wouldn’t KNOW the difference/be able to compare, would they?

Sex is a relationship/a sexual relationship which might not even be friendly as opposed to commercial [various forms of prostitution] whereby without a financial incentive no sexual intimacy would occur; whereas isn’t what this thread is focused on the fact that in some sexual relationships while the woman might view sex as a sign that she’s in a committed meaningful relationship, the man could be using her as a convenient outlet for his sexual urges while having no intention of EVER committing seriously to her [BTW women can make this play too/happened to me a couple of times]?

Isn’t ANYONE who genuinely believes they are not programmed
graphically illustrating that their programming is COMPLETE?


Uhm, was this addressed to me?





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