Black Relationships : Women who pick up alot of weight after marriage.

[karmashines]

SWeety I said when I was in school
I was doing weight training
When I got out of school I stopped
Gained weight got deprssed
Got back in the gym lost it and now
Im attractive as ever
And can forfill any womans
Pleasure

Oh, I see. Yeah, that tends to happen if you stop training.

 

[Tantrum]

Oh, I see. Yeah, that tends to happen if you stop training.

Yeah lucky for me I snapped out of it
Got back in the Gym and did my thang
Yo I think you ar a sister look for
My new pic March 2006
Hot like fire for real
Much Love

 

[mchinadoll]

I am very attractive an fortunate too blessed
With the way I look-Im sure you feel the same way
Fotunate about the way that you look

Tantrum:

I do think that I am attractive. I have self love, so everytime I look in the mirror I see a beautiful woman. Not because I am 5'1" 125lbs, and in good shape, but because of the accomplishments I have made in my life. At 38 years old I have done more than most people I KNOW (the key words) has done in their life time. I am a great mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, etc. I continue to educate my mind, to take care of my body, and to give to others. That's what I think makes me beautiful.

But, I have not always been this way. There was a point in my life when my self esteem was low, because I didn't love myself. I felt like I needed a man to validate me and give me purpose. When I went through hell and back, with the help of God and a therapy, I found out that I had the power to control how I feel, and no one could make me feel inadequate but myself. A hard but necessary lesson to learn.

 

[Tantrum]

Tantrum:

I do think that I am attractive. I have self love, so everytime I look in the mirror I see a beautiful woman. Not because I am 5'1" 125lbs, and in good shape, but because of the accomplishments I have made in life. At 38 years old I have done more than most people I KNOW (the key words) has done in their life time. I am a great mother, wife, daughter sister, aunt, etc. I continue to educate my mind, to know and explore my body, and to give to others. That's what I think makes me beautiful.

But, I have not always been this way. At a point in my life my self esteem was low, because I didn't love myself. I felt like I needed a man to validate me and give me purpose. When I went through hell and back, with the help of God and a therapy, I found out that I had the power to control I feel, and no one could make me feel inadequate but myself. A hard but necessary lesson to learn.

I feel you sis
Much Love to you for that
I can understand what you are saying
Even from the thread about your husband
Back when i read it i could feel you
So much Love and respect goes out to you
Not just for being sexy yet for being a strong black sister

 

[mchinadoll]

So much Love and respect goes out to you
Not just for being sexy yet for being a strong black sister

Tantrum:

It is really nice to have a man who I do not even know give me such a wonderful compliment. I am a strong black sister, and I would like to empower other sisters who do not feel like they are complete.

Though I still have issues in life as we all do. I have comfort in the fact that no matter what happens, I am in control of what happens to me.

Love yourself, love yourself, take care of and love your children, and love your man. In that order.