Brothers....If your woman put on weight after marriage and I don't mean a few extra pounds, I mean she put on WEIGHT. Would you still view her as attractive? This question came up when me and a few brothas were chit chatin'. One brother said, he would give her a chance to loose the weight and if she didn't, it's over. Another said, he'll leave right away. Me, my response was "I don't know". I don't want to leave my woman over something that appears to be superficial but at the same time, you have to be attracted to your woman...Brothers, what would yall do? Sisters, go ahead and jump in this also.