>>>>My cousin thinks the same way you do and she is single fair in complexion, long waist length hair.Can you beleive that all the wrong types of black men ask her out, they can't say her hair is fake as many of them claim they can't stand but she run into the ones that like to play with life and are not serious?>>>>>>>>>
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Luckily your cousin has figured it out in time. It took my enitre twenties before I figured it out. Many (not all) black men were with me because I was "close enough to white"!! It was inconceivable to me, that a man I perceived as so beautiful could actually look at me and see his reflection. Since I was a reflection of him (black), he could never give me what I needed since he hated his own reflection. I personally "feel" my race (unlike many of the new NEO biracials raised by these "self hating" men and their scared delusional white wives) and it knocks me out to see black men run over beautiful black women for a white woman. I have seen black men overseas, leave the side of stunning professional black women for the first bruised and skinny white prostitute they could find. Oh, and don't go to Canada with a group of black men, they lose their minds!!
I truly believe that the white woman is not the problem. She should be pitied since she (in many cases) is gaining an emtpy pit of a man that hates his own skin color. He is a man that is using her as a piece of status and as a tophy (I know, I can relate!).
I had an Asian friend ask me "why do I not see black men date black women??"....LOL. I was floored and didn't know what to say at first!!!
I was at an establishment not too long ago and a very nice looking black man sat next to me. He immediatley started telling me why he didn't like dating BLACK WOMEN!!! I guess he ASSUMED I was latin...lol....Assumption being the lowest form of intelligence, he was quickly dismissed and I had a bad taste in my mouth. If any of the white men I ever dated, would ever dog his entire race of women, he would have been dumped in a fat second.
Anyway, I don't believe in excluding black men, but black women NEED to open up their options!! Black men are not waiting for them.
Cya,
mseis
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Luckily your cousin has figured it out in time. It took my enitre twenties before I figured it out. Many (not all) black men were with me because I was "close enough to white"!! It was inconceivable to me, that a man I perceived as so beautiful could actually look at me and see his reflection. Since I was a reflection of him (black), he could never give me what I needed since he hated his own reflection. I personally "feel" my race (unlike many of the new NEO biracials raised by these "self hating" men and their scared delusional white wives) and it knocks me out to see black men run over beautiful black women for a white woman. I have seen black men overseas, leave the side of stunning professional black women for the first bruised and skinny white prostitute they could find. Oh, and don't go to Canada with a group of black men, they lose their minds!!
I truly believe that the white woman is not the problem. She should be pitied since she (in many cases) is gaining an emtpy pit of a man that hates his own skin color. He is a man that is using her as a piece of status and as a tophy (I know, I can relate!).
I had an Asian friend ask me "why do I not see black men date black women??"....LOL. I was floored and didn't know what to say at first!!!
I was at an establishment not too long ago and a very nice looking black man sat next to me. He immediatley started telling me why he didn't like dating BLACK WOMEN!!! I guess he ASSUMED I was latin...lol....Assumption being the lowest form of intelligence, he was quickly dismissed and I had a bad taste in my mouth. If any of the white men I ever dated, would ever dog his entire race of women, he would have been dumped in a fat second.
Anyway, I don't believe in excluding black men, but black women NEED to open up their options!! Black men are not waiting for them.
Cya,
mseis