well i think that is mostly young people i would think mature people would spend more time being themselves and not waste time lol, i mean you don't have to go out all the time, what about just accompanying one another like your friends do, you don't have to impress a woman, if she likes you its you not what you buy or show her.... seeing you would be sufficient don't you think? maybe im odd, but im more interested in the person and not being distracted by things trying to figure who they are exactly to some good extent.
You'd be surprised how uncommon maturity is, especially when it comes to relationships. Females 18-80 still like bad boys. Moreover, good relationships usually dont happen on a 1st sight basis. One usually has to wear on the other. Instant hook ups are an immature phenomenon if there ever was one.