- Apr 22, 2003
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I'm with you Brother James!
Although we are one, we still are individuals who have different thoughts, needs, and desires. What i discuss with my s/o and what i discuss with my friend doesn't necessarily have to affect my relationship with my partner.
Sometimes there will be issues i may not know how to present to my partner. A friend can help me to re-evaluate my concerns. Find solutions to my dilemma, let me know if i'm being to sensitive, or, whether i'm overreacting. A friend is like an extra support system (a go between if you will). Someone who can ease tension in a difficult time. Someone, who in return, you are there for also.
My partner doesn't have to know every single detail about whats going on in my mind, and the truth is, no one person will ever know ever single detail pertaining to they're mate and/or friend. That isn't what destroys relationships. What destroys relationships is our inability to communicate when the time calls for it. If we can not do this, then a problem will occur.
In a case like that, a friend can provide guidance, assurance, and support. Everyone should have a friend like this, because there will come a time when ya gonna need one.
I got a few of 'em!
Although we are one, we still are individuals who have different thoughts, needs, and desires. What i discuss with my s/o and what i discuss with my friend doesn't necessarily have to affect my relationship with my partner.
Sometimes there will be issues i may not know how to present to my partner. A friend can help me to re-evaluate my concerns. Find solutions to my dilemma, let me know if i'm being to sensitive, or, whether i'm overreacting. A friend is like an extra support system (a go between if you will). Someone who can ease tension in a difficult time. Someone, who in return, you are there for also.
My partner doesn't have to know every single detail about whats going on in my mind, and the truth is, no one person will ever know ever single detail pertaining to they're mate and/or friend. That isn't what destroys relationships. What destroys relationships is our inability to communicate when the time calls for it. If we can not do this, then a problem will occur.
In a case like that, a friend can provide guidance, assurance, and support. Everyone should have a friend like this, because there will come a time when ya gonna need one.
I got a few of 'em!