Hello I'm new here just wanted to talk about a lil bit of my relationship with my man that is just tearing me down. We've been together for almost five years he's a young black man. We've been going through so much. We live together it's like every day we argue, every day he leaves me and my daughter to go hang with his boys all day and don't come back home til like 2:00 o'clock in the morning wakes me up telling me he's gonna change I have to believe him. Then we start arguing again Because I told him He's not ready to be a dad , he's not ready for a relationship. To let you know our daughter is 19 months. He gets real mad when I say that. I told him why don't we just get a lil bit of space from each other even though we've had alot cause he's never home. He doesn't want to he wants to stay with me he doesn't want me around nobody else cause he thinks he's gonna lose me. What I think it is, I think he's confused. He wants me and wants to be in the streets. But he just has to understand he can't have both. My emotions for him just goes up and down. It drives a young woman crazy.