Peace and Blessings Sister,
I listened to your audio presentation, and i'm not personally compelled to speak on such matters, no matter if it is women or men doing what you call "exploitation."
I suppose this is because, even when men do it, and i'm speaking specificially about creating, promoting, and selling video of women scantilly clad or naked ... the women sign up for this. So it's not exactly exploitation i don't think. It's women choosing to be a part of this lifestyle. Even strippers, prostitutes, all of that, volunteer for this in many cases. It would be my hope that they are all of legal age, able to weigh the pros and cons, then choose.
I agree that it doesn't look good for us collectively, when Sisters present themselves in this light, but hopefully they are getting something out of it, that makes it worth their while. I don't take their actions upon my heart, as though it is me doing it, or my people collectively.
We can't really legislate morality, or what we think the defnition of morality is, amongst grown men and women.
All we can do as individuals, is not portray the same image, provide a different image, counter to that one.
I didn't get a chance to listen to
your other audios, as i had hoped, but i scanned some of the responses. From what i gathered based on them, i think what i'm about to say, can apply to that thread, as well as this one.
We have to begin creating our own positive images of our selves. Some will want to do this, and some won't. Some will choose to go to the place where Black Men and Women are denigrated, disrespected, and demeaned, and some will want to come to places where we are lifted up. We just have to try and provide these alternative options.
That's what this community is about. You will be hard-pressed to find mean, disparaging, demeaning commentary about Black Women or Men in general, here. Likewise, you won't find any naked, scantilly-clad women baring themselves to the world.
That's what i'm moved to do. That's my voice on such topics, my own actions, as i have no control over others.
I admire your desire to speak on this, attempt to change it, etc., and encourage you to keep up the good work.
Much Love and Peace Sister!
Destee