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Next step... More Black women Pastors and Ministers/Healers/MedicineWOman...Perhaps!
Sun Ship said:Yes Brother Panafrica, we are having social abnormities affecting our community…but as the Last Poets said “related to what”?
If we read this except from this article, it is definitely not “whorish Black women” creating the problems; maybe “some of our abnormalities” say we are better than everybody else!
Our situation, as I said, is multifaceted; the ills along with the successes. We can’t oversimplify this issue with generalizations and name-calling. And the group that is usually accused of making the worst decisions (young Black females), is out shining everybody!
I think Black women are taking control of their lives and the Black males dilemma of the so-called “shiftless Negro” character is dieing out of the picture…we must read these facts carefully, there is good and bad here.
Also please read the whole article after you read this excerpt…if I haven’t said, too much that has been “interesting or thought provoking” I think this article will!! (link at bottom of page)
More black women putting off kids to
focus on career
Decline in group’s birth rate being influenced by several factors
By VICTOR MANUEL RAMOS The Orlando Sentinel
“The reduction in teen pregnancies is a big factor, because in black women a lot of the childbearing took place in the younger ages. … The major decline among them has outpaced all other groups. It’s really quite striking.”
Stephanie Ventura Demographer and chief of the reproductive-statistics branch at the National Center for Health Statistics
Economic betterment
Patrick Mason, an economics professor who directs the African American Studies program at Florida State University, learned from his fertility research that black women are postponing motherhood in pursuit of economic improvement.
More black women than men attend college, Mason said. So not only are black women, married or unmarried, avoiding having children to stay on course, but some of the younger women struggle to find men who meet their expectations, Mason said.
Mason studied statistics from the 1990s for unmarried 25-year-olds whose earnings put them above the poverty level for a family of four.
He found that there were about 300 single black men living above the poverty level for every 1,000 black women in the same category.
“If you think of marriage as mainly an economic event, you can see what’s going on,” Mason adds.
“What it means to be a husband is to be a breadwinner. So, if you are not making enough to be a breadwinner, you are not marriage-eligible in the minds of women as well as men.”
Ya’Frica Tadesse — whose first name is pronounced YAH-fri-ca, similarly to the name of the continent of Africa — and her friends share the sentiment. She meets weekly with three sorority sisters to discuss their experiences and drink cappuccinos — a ritual they’ve embraced after graduating from the University of Central Florida.
Recently they spoke about how their single lives can be a stigma in family circles, where strong women have traditionally been motherly figures.
“Why should we, why should I, settle for less?” asks Stephanie Franklin, 31, one of Tadesse’s friends who is a copy editor at the Hometown News in Fort Pierce, Fla.
“A lot of family members think that something must be wrong. They have actually asked me if I’m lesbian because it’s almost as if people want for you to bring a husband and have a bunch of kids.”
“Not having children now is a change we wanted to make,” said Suzanne McPherson, 27, an elementary-school teacher who lives in Casselberry, Fla.
‘Zero kids’ for now
Rosilyn Williams’ mother, for example, was in her teens when she started her family. She had four children.
Her maternal grandmother had 10 children. Williams’ twin sister has four. Williams, a radiology technologist who is 25, says she has “zero kids” and plans to keep it that way for now.
“If we’re going to be dominant figures, why not be dominant professionally?” Williams said.
Tadesse relays that message of caution to others as manager for youth education and prevention at the Metropolitan Orlando Urban League, a social-service organization that sponsors a pregnancy-prevention program with schools.
She says young women struggle with the contradictory message of excelling without becoming lonely women.
“For me that was kind of the plan,” Tadesse said. “You graduate from high school, you graduate from college; then you think about a family.
My parents told me that, and now it’s like, ‘The waiting is over. Can you really get started now?’”
More black women putting off kids to focus on career
Next step... More Black women Pastors and Ministers/Healers/MedicineWOman...Perhaps!