Spare Me SWT T
Carmal is stating the truth. Women especially black women allow this nonsense to go on, and then want to have this stupid look on their face when it hits the fan. As far as "speaking" about something we've never experienced, have you ever thought that WE DON'T WANT TO?!! We refuse to put up with that, that's why we're who we are!!! I don't think myself or Carmal ever want to be in this situation maybe because we're more eager to demand respect and love ourselves first!! When you have you together the right person will come along. It's a patience game, and it seems that no one has any left. They have to have a man so bad that they're willing to accept anything! It's attitudes like yours, and your dismissive mentality that make it "okay," for these women to not stand up for themselves and demand respect from these loose men. Maybe if we can get our minds right and stop putting up with drama then maybe these men wouldn't be so EAGER to give it to us. As far as children are concerned they are a blessing that get caught up in this mirage of a relationship that really isn't a relationship to begin with. Love hurts more when you don't love yourself and that men you want so bad doesn't LOVE YOU and Probably Never will. BOO HOO!!! Women need to get their heads right because it's 2005 and every opportunity is available to them regardless of their SES!! Stop being IGNORANT AND A DOORMAT, after all "WOMEN CHOOSE MEN, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!! For goodness sakes we have children, we can endure alot, with that being said it's obvious that God gave us tools to be strong. The question is when are we going to stop being STUPID!!
SwtT said:I decided not to wait for your reply but to speak my mind. It honestly angers me when women always say what another woman should do when that woman herself hasn't ever been in that same situation. Carmal, I see this all the time everyday. My goddaughter, I love her to dath, was born from a relationship such as this. I , myself , have been through drama with relationships.
You cannot speak on things that you don't know much about, I don't know if you have ever been in a situation like that but I have. You say that you are in a great relationship and thats great but it sounds like you have no idea about the subject that you are so eager to preach to women about
Carmal is stating the truth. Women especially black women allow this nonsense to go on, and then want to have this stupid look on their face when it hits the fan. As far as "speaking" about something we've never experienced, have you ever thought that WE DON'T WANT TO?!! We refuse to put up with that, that's why we're who we are!!! I don't think myself or Carmal ever want to be in this situation maybe because we're more eager to demand respect and love ourselves first!! When you have you together the right person will come along. It's a patience game, and it seems that no one has any left. They have to have a man so bad that they're willing to accept anything! It's attitudes like yours, and your dismissive mentality that make it "okay," for these women to not stand up for themselves and demand respect from these loose men. Maybe if we can get our minds right and stop putting up with drama then maybe these men wouldn't be so EAGER to give it to us. As far as children are concerned they are a blessing that get caught up in this mirage of a relationship that really isn't a relationship to begin with. Love hurts more when you don't love yourself and that men you want so bad doesn't LOVE YOU and Probably Never will. BOO HOO!!! Women need to get their heads right because it's 2005 and every opportunity is available to them regardless of their SES!! Stop being IGNORANT AND A DOORMAT, after all "WOMEN CHOOSE MEN, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!! For goodness sakes we have children, we can endure alot, with that being said it's obvious that God gave us tools to be strong. The question is when are we going to stop being STUPID!!