This subject disturbs me and I hear about these subjects all the time from my friends and family members that go through these things. Thankfully I am in a wonderful relationship but it still bothers me. At a certain age ladies you should know when a man cares about you or wants a relationship. Why do grown women still get emotionally attached to men they are just having sex with? Okay I could see if you were 16,17,or maybe still 18. If he's just calling at night to come over and doesn't take you in public he's not interested. It doesn't take a scientist to figure this one out. I guess you women think if he keeps inviting you over than he likes you, no you are just free booty that doesn't respect yourself. At least a prostitute gets paid for it. And then when you see him out with another woman,you want to act all ignorant like he was your man. A relationship is more than just sex! Sistas please wake up and for those who keep getting pregnant by the same man who is still cheating on you and hasn't married you yet. Hello most likely he isn't going to change. Why you ask because of an old saying a man will only do what a woman allows him to do. If you keep taking him back time after time why should he change. Stand up,respect and want more for yourself.