BELIEVE ME I DO UNDERSTAND YOUR REPLY, I'VE BEEN ON THE OTHER SIDE, THIS PIECE WAS WRITTEN, NOT FROM THE STAND POINT OF THE HUSBAND DOING WRONG, BUT MORE SO TO LET THE OTHER CHEATERS, KNOW THAT IF A PERSON IS ATTACHED, TO SOMEONE ELSE. THEY ARE NOT REALLY YOURS AND THAT YOU ARE GIVING THEM THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS THINKING THAT THEY WILL EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE OTHER ONE FOR YOU, WHEN IN REALITY THIS IS NOT HOW IT USUALLY ENDS UP. MOST OF THE TIME, IT ENDS UP YOU BEING LEFT WAITING AROUND ON BIRTHDAYS, HOLIDAYS, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT HOLDING ON TO PROMISES AND MEMORIES, BUT MOST OF ALL HOLDING ON TO A LIE, THIS IS WHAT I MEANT BY REALITY CHECK