if i could make you think that then i would be so far ahead of the game ... (still love that voice, tho!) maybe i should throw some of that caution out the window too!Destee said:Brother anAfrican ... are you trying to get me banned from the site, by being all off-topic in the midst of a serious discussion ... making me think i'm finally finna get a husband and i can just throw caution to the wind and act any ol' kinda way i want ... ?? ... don't be try'n to get me banned!
The picture doesn't come any bigger than that though ... sorry ... you're so sweet!
Destee
(oops! started as a joke but the frustration of losing the response i had been composing just sort of turned this into a rant.)
"on topic"??? around here??? now there is some "mass denial" thinking that things stay on topic!! besides that, one of the major topics of this forum is "Building With Our People" but a river runs through that one too, eh? why build when one can just pontificate endlessly asking needless questions that only serve to stretch out the convo? (what do you mean "what do you mean by "group of people"?"?!! given the context of the post that has to rank up there as one of those questions that means absolutely nothing but "i have to duck, quick!". pardon. chalk it up to my frustration at yet another "serious discussion" that is bound to go nowhere ... before it is asked: i keep hanging on hoping that this group of american Africans might come together and grow something ... but we do seem to keep losing folks over the years don't we? i wonder why ..)
on yet another hand, it could be a serious bit of "denial" that keeps me from taking the topic of this "off topic" diversion as the joke that it is, no? <g>