I believe that the "Dogs" uses of the word n***** is unacceptable. However, his true intentions for not wanting his son to be with this black woman is unclear. Is it a underlining racism at work? Or... is it truly what the "Dog" stated, that he didn't want the public to think, his use of the word n****** was used in a derogatory manner which he felt could possibly be leaked to the public by his son's girlfriend. I understand that the use of the word n***** by anyone is infuriating . We can find out the "Dogs" true intentions in this situation with the wisdom from the Chinese Oracle The I-Ching and the African-American oracle system The Metu Neter.
Breaking bread with a wrong doer is not what I'm implying, but after punishment and correction has taken place....redemption for the wrong doer must be allowed so growth can continue.