Black Relationships : BLACK WOMEN LOWERING STANDARDS FOR BLACK MEN????

[Isaiah]

Brother Isaiah ... you've contradicted yourself at least twice in this thread, not to mention the flat-out skewed, distorted, and personal views of Black Women you're presenting to the world.

If you'd like me to point them out to you, i will.

Cause i am oh so ready to you.

But i know how sensitive and emotional you get, when i respond to you, so i'm asking first, is it okay for me to do?

And no, i'm not lowering my standards, by asking first.



Destee

Destee, If you'd like to point out my "skewed, distorted, and personal views of Black women", you go right ahead, but I have to warn you that this thread was based on what Sister Bisabee said was a message SHE had received from a LEADING BLACK WOMEN's magazine, and other sources - namely Black women... You got the floor, sister Destee...


Peace!
Isaiah

 

[IfUComeSoftly]

now... pay for a date? lmao... i dont' pay for dates... not the kid.. now i will probably treat you to lunch... maybe bring it by your job (calling first... lol) or if i'm in a store and see something you need (that's within my grasp financially and i can give it with an open heart) then i buy it for you... or if i see some clothing.... a nice pair of slacks.. some kenneth coles or cole haans then i got you... help you with little things... just be an all around generous/nice person... but i do not pay for dates... now if we've been together for a while... i will do that on special occassions or just b/c.. but in the beginnning and the majority of the time thereafter... hell no... i will give your pockets a break and burn you up something that you love to eat real quick... i'll cook you dinner...

but i never go anywhere... even on a date and have the cash to cover my meal and tip... this whole idea of women going and getting free meals b/c they can't pay is soooo false with me...

oh.. if you're nice and i like you then... i got the tip.... while we wait for our table... i'll slide the maitre'd or the hostess some cash so that they can bring you your drink of choice... cause i try to be thoughful... be an all around lady.. but pay for a date... smh...

and the extremely high standards... i know sisters who have their dream man's height picked out.. i mean all kinds of things... i mean focus on what's important... and let go of all that superficial bs...

 

[Destee]

Destee, If you'd like to point out my "skewed, distorted, and personal views of Black women", you go right ahead, but I have to warn you that this thread was based on what Sister Bisabee said was a message SHE had received from a LEADING BLACK WOMEN's magazine, and other sources - namely Black women... You got the floor, sister Destee...


Peace!
Isaiah

Thank you ... i'll do just that ... you know me, i'm long-winded ... it's gonna take a few.



Destee

 

[Isaiah]

Thank you ... i'll do just that ... you know me, i'm long-winded ... it's gonna take a few.



Destee

Destee, I think you're pissed at something else, and I am one of your favorite targets, but it's all good...always a wonderful and charming experience to have that rare audience with the Queen MotherLOL!


Peace!
Isaiah

 

[spicybrown]

See lookey here Isaiah, see what ya done started......LOL.