Hi Special -
Living a righteous/clean life is an individual choice that should (and can be) be exercised for the well being and health of that individual, relationships, familes, our community and ultimately of our society. When choices are clouded with selfishness, ignorance, greed, etc., then everyone suffer - as we are now.
It is easy to do whatever one wants and then try to escape responsibilty for those actions. But we do it. It's easier to search for someone to 'put up' with us than to work and improve ourselves. But we do it.
Some people are going to do whatever they want. They are the people that go left just because someone suggest they go right. You can't tell some people nothing. That's the way it is, but does not mean we have to resign from doing right because others will not. Maybe some will be 'won over' from the actions of others: influence.
I will piggyback on what NNQueen stated and agree that we can't wait for men to step up. Or anyone, for that matter.
I know that the thought processes of some of us include selfishness and 'getting mine'. We are at war. Not a physical war, but one of principles, ways, thoughts, differences of opinion, etc.
What do we do? As an individual I must...
1. Know what is expected of me from God, myself and others.
2. Establish personal values and be honest about them. What I
want, what matters to me, etc.
3. Live according to my values that will enhance my life and
others around me, conscious of my decisions and choices.
4. Grow from experience.
Those are some things I share with my circle of sistah friends and especially to my neices, nephews, the girls in my Sunday School class, and the girl I mentor.
I know it starts with me, the people I touch, the people they touch and maybe it will eventually touch...you.
With Much Luv -