Sisters - Are we spoiling men and causing them to become lazy by accepting behaviors, treatments, habits and attitudes that should be unacceptable? Are we creating problems for ourselves and each other by not holding men to a higher standard? Are we creating problems for ourselves and each other by not holding ourselves and each other to a higher standard when it comes to men? Are we making poor choices out of haste and pressure to have a man, i.e., getting emotionally and physically involved with an already committed man, or one who doesn't want to commit? If we required/insisted/demanded better from men and each other, our relationships would improve. More marriages would be successful and our children more emotionally stable. And ultimately, our community will be better. Women have been known to influence men with our behavior, walk, talk, smell, touch, smile and mere femininity. Can we influence more positive reactions and responses from men? Or...is it too late? What do you think?????