Did I hear someone say no wing joints someplace!
I'm calling the department of homeland security. This qualifies as a terrorist act!
As for the big women, to me, I am not attracted to them. But that doesn't mean that I don't love the sisters at the same time.
Where I am now which is over 80% black, growing up was around 80% white. All I ever saw was whites. And because I went to their schools, saw their tv shows and went to their churches, there was a time when I would not have dated a black woman to save my soul. But that also meant that the negativity that I had towards them, I had towards myself. It also meant that I had little regards for my parents because since mom was a nurse in a nursing home, and was overweight, she propelled the typical stereotype to me......and I believed it. Even the other sisters around were mostly big and overweight (mostly from the south due to the great migration). For me, black women were fat and for use.
But once I began to open my eyes, to actually hear & remember the lessons my parents taught me, to see the beauty of my sisters no matter what they looked like physically, that was when the whole world changed. Eventually, once I understood how racism had altered my view of even myself, I begun to really appreciate black women for who they were, and of who I was.
So yes, I have my preferences of what I would call "most beautiful", but that does not mean that all black women are not "beautiful", because they are and I love them all.
How can I not love my sister?