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Violence is violence, and in domestic we all lose.... Never be foolish enough to try and simplý restrain her. Depending on where you live...you will get no love from the police nor judge nor the D.A...once she makes up her mind to get pissed off to the point of striking you or anyone she is angry with.. She is already out of control, and it is not the mans fault no matter who started
what..the person who gets kicked, knocked around with fist blows, and hurtful words and actions, will need to make up their minds at that very first time she strikes them. At no time do you strike her back! It is a whole new day and age. But I do not and would not look to get the authorities involve, at least not at first. There are community counseling centers that work with married couples to help, there are also churches, pastors who I bet would be more than happy to assist on showing an abuser of any kind, the way to freedom, after all, according to scriptures in the bible, jesus himself taught to do unto others as who would have them do unto you. Anyone who hurts with words or fist are suffering..and It is easier to show others our anger, than to show them we
are actually hurt by what has happened to us. This is why it is crucially important that we get past the honeymoon stage of these relationships, and start asking questions about our mates past, present and future plans, so that we do not get caught up in things they have been dealing with, or have refuse to correct from their past. if one while growing up, came from an affectionate, loving,positive childhood, they more than likely will be prepped to deal with crappy situations in life, because they were taught. While the one they fall for, may lack tremendously on all fronts, and they may start to reflect those insecurities, unresolved anger issues later on down the relationship... In a nutshell...the two must be equally yoked if you will. If someone has been abused or do
not know any other way to express how they feel but by throwing blows, then it is not about you, and it may not even be the result of what the abuser did in this life, but it does become their responsibility to correct the circumstances from the past, so that they can be free from it in the future, and can give onto others the lessons to lessen suffering among our people..
what..the person who gets kicked, knocked around with fist blows, and hurtful words and actions, will need to make up their minds at that very first time she strikes them. At no time do you strike her back! It is a whole new day and age. But I do not and would not look to get the authorities involve, at least not at first. There are community counseling centers that work with married couples to help, there are also churches, pastors who I bet would be more than happy to assist on showing an abuser of any kind, the way to freedom, after all, according to scriptures in the bible, jesus himself taught to do unto others as who would have them do unto you. Anyone who hurts with words or fist are suffering..and It is easier to show others our anger, than to show them we
are actually hurt by what has happened to us. This is why it is crucially important that we get past the honeymoon stage of these relationships, and start asking questions about our mates past, present and future plans, so that we do not get caught up in things they have been dealing with, or have refuse to correct from their past. if one while growing up, came from an affectionate, loving,positive childhood, they more than likely will be prepped to deal with crappy situations in life, because they were taught. While the one they fall for, may lack tremendously on all fronts, and they may start to reflect those insecurities, unresolved anger issues later on down the relationship... In a nutshell...the two must be equally yoked if you will. If someone has been abused or do
not know any other way to express how they feel but by throwing blows, then it is not about you, and it may not even be the result of what the abuser did in this life, but it does become their responsibility to correct the circumstances from the past, so that they can be free from it in the future, and can give onto others the lessons to lessen suffering among our people..
