How would you deal with a violent wife girlfriend? If rumour is believed Rhianna was the one that hit Chris Brown first - he hit back and look where it got him. Hitting back is not an option nor is it morally right - and it's not a gentlemenly thing to do. So what do you do if your wife/girlfriend hauls off and starts hitting/beating you. What is the best way to handle such a situation in order to achieve the best results?