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OK now Cherryblossom.. like I said his life experiences is what made him who he is. I don't know what they are. Nor do I care. All that is important to me is, is he trying to help with the struggle ..and from the links that was posted he is. Not the interview but the links. The interview is from his life experiences. His mating chooses is exactly that... "HIS!" And has nothing to do with you or I. I have my chooses and you have your's...and we still make them because of our life experiences. Of-course I'd rather see him with a Sister..But I haven't had his experiences. Neither have you. So how can I choose his mate for him? Is that what you are advacating..we choose mates for each other? I don't think love works that way.. well it wouldn't for me...lol
And do we really know the Questions what was ask of him for him to give those replies. I didn't see them.
Lilpea..
IF "his life experiences" are what he based his descriptions of ALL Black women on, then that's the same thing Black men say about Black women who blame ALL Black men and hold ALL Black men accountable for their past relationships.
It's not right for EITHER side to do it.
Yes, "choosing his mate" is his decision. He just didn't have to TEAR DOWN all Black women in the process.
As for the article, I posted the link. Any can read its entirety if they choose.
Now, I don't mean to keep "derailing" this thread.
So I'm out. ---------------------------------------------------------->