That's a spoonful of soul to read and I think instinct may have thrown the male off when it comes to grasping love. By nature we are competitors and providers and not accustomed to providing love. We learn that with time and relationships. But I think your poems really illustrates and confirms that men can't make love to a woman nor can a woman make love to a man. All we can really do is share being in a moment of love like two people standing in the rain while the gates of heaven pour emotions onto them both. Who knows it hella complicated at times, but this was deep true testimony. Well said sistagyrl!