Hmmm, I'm in no way a part of this, but I would like to say that (if what I'm reading is correct) I agree with Kemetstry.
I think it IS Destee's job to ensure that there are no cyber-stalkers allowed on Destee. If someone is reporting and giving proof that there is inappropriate conduct, I don't see how it ISN'T your responsibility to ban said person. In essence, on Destee, I believe the police to be Destee.
Your always banning people anyway, I don't see how we're getting shy about it now. If someone is getting cyber-stalked, Destee should be the first person taking action, not the police.
My reasoning is thus: Cyber stalking is a NON-PHYSICAL issue that actually takes place in what I consider to be a "non-physical realm" aka the internet. Therefore, the best you can do with the police is cry UNLESS there is a threat involved (AND the definition stated that for cyber stalking to happen there DOES NOT have to be a threat involved). What would you tell the police if it was non-violent, but equally as invasive cyber-stalking?
Cyber stalking is a CLEAR abuse of what this site says it's about. Therefore, since it goes beyond someone's feelings getting hurt, and actually borders on abuse of the site, I would consider it to be Destee's job to ensure that everyone is using the tools of the site properly, so that no one gets "hurt". And by "hurt" here, I don't mean feelings so much as I mean hurting someone's experience on this site.
The experience is your job, Destee, right? Aren't you around to make sure the experience is clean, safe, appropriate, and within the rules of Destee?