Black People : Being Pimped !?

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  1. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    I've seen many cases of the pimp game over years, and how people are
    being manipulated by the pimp game , taken by surprise and misused for
    there personal enjoyment !

    It has puzzled me how i see older people in general be taken on this ride
    of getting pimped out loads of money .

    I've heard even as far as what they got in return , a good night of lust
    which is or in most cases a seductional payday !
    So my questions is::

    1. Was one pimped or paying to play in the lust game ??

    2. How do you know when someone is trying to pimp you or milk the cow ??

    3. When is it enough before you realized your being pimped / used / manipulated.?

    4. Isn't it the same when you lay and play then pay a high price the same
    as a inside calling Prostitute ?

    5. How often do men become victims i haven't did a study but was told
    that men rate out of every 100, 37% are victims just like women who are
    being pimped the odd number is now on the rise more and more men are taken
    on a money scam by women , Has the ball bounced and turn to where women
    now the pimper and men the pimpee ?

    It leave me to wonder if i've been a victim to this game and not aware or
    know i've been pimped. Have our sistas taken the pimp game to a different
    level through lies / betrayal and deception to gain profits ......:yo:

    Who's pimping who !:thinking:
     
  2. KappaAlphaPsi

    KappaAlphaPsi Banned MEMBER

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    If you get played you must have been manipulated.
    Woman and men get played everyday thats the balance of life.
    You have to have a winner amongst loosers.
    If someone wasnt to get played it wouldnt be fun.
    I think be able to get what you want, when you want it, its love.
    I think this will be a good thread for people that have been played maybe,
    they will learn something I will laugh as I read...
     
  3. NNQueen

    NNQueen going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    *shaking my head*

    Brother....are you serious that you would LAUGH at someone else's pain and misery? :confused:

    What planet do you live on? Playing and pimping people is not the balance of life on earth.

    You would not make a very good negotiator. Haven't you ever heard of the "win-win" concept?

    Are you in kindergarten? People shouldn't be treated as though they are nothing but a game. If pimping/playing people is your idea of fun, I have to wonder where you learned such a notion.

    Again, surely you can't be serious. But if you are, you might want to consider asking someone who knows better, what the definition of love is. There are plenty of threads here that can help you get started learning.

    And you call yourself a brother in the fraternity and this is how you think? :confused: Goodness, gracious!! People's emotions and well-being are no laughing matter--including yours. So, in other words, you're saying that you willfully pimp others and get pimped? And that's okay with you? Is this what you intend to teach your children and how you want to raise them to follow in your footsteps?

    Hope you don't take this too personal and it's not meant to be an insult, but if this is your mentality and behavior, please practice birth control and choose who you try to pimp very carefully because what you do unto others, will be done to you and sometimes worse. :book:
     
  4. KappaAlphaPsi

    KappaAlphaPsi Banned MEMBER

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    This aint the 60's back in your day for real.
    Get with the program or move on.
    You should know by now that kappas are playas.
    Yes I rep my frat to the fulliest, but that has nothing to do,
    with the fact woman have got pimped and played for years.
    But yall let it go on crying over men letting them take your money.
    I see that you have been played too. I am pretty sure of it.
    If you dont want others to get played like you have, write a book
    describing your frustrations of getting played and help other victims get over it..
    Wake UP!!!
     
  5. Bisabee

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    I know this is a Black forum, but let's broaden this a bit. This is a situation that cuts across ALL racial and ethnic lines. Younger white women, for ex. are notorious for dating and marrying ANY kind of man for the money or other perks that he can offer. From what I've read and from discussing this very issue with a middle-aged white female neighbor, they are even encouraged to marry men for money and status, and no one thinks less of them. Both the older white man and the younger white woman go into this situation with their eyes wide open--they both know what they're getting out of the deal. He feels macho longer, she gets status or a boost in her career and/or she and the children (if there are any) get well-taken care of, i.e Larry King, Norman Mailer, Paul McCartney etc. and their decades-younger wives.

    Is this a case of "pimping?" I don't think so.

    I've noticed that when a Black woman does this on any level, she's considered a "golddigger" or a prostitute. WHY?

    Any man or woman needs to ask themselves: WHY really is this person spending time and/or being intimate with me? Am I really “all that”?

    I think many older men are pimped because they fool themselves into believing that a younger woman truly wants and loves them. Just yesterday, a friend was telling me about her father-in-law who is dating a young woman and he’s giving her his social security check. This is NOT the fault of the younger woman. If you are going to give away your money, most people are willing to take it.

    An older “should be smarter/wiser” man needs to be honest with himself and ask WHY really is this woman spending time and/or being intimate with me?—and he should be willing to face the truth.
     
  6. cursed heart

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    I feel the same way you do about this!
    It's rediculous!
    Pay attention:

    If a woman asks you to pay her rent days after you met her or freaked her.
    If she says she's always broke but manages to cop her a sack of weed and asks you for money for bills.
    These women usually go after ,older,
    married,unattractive,common sense illiterate,short stamina sexually,over weight,easy going,easy to be turned out men!(In other words if your tossin his salad he's tossin you hair and nail money!
    If you so much as blow on his ear ,he buys you designer clothes .
    Most of these women are very attractive,slick,not enough upstairs but plenty down below.
    hoochie hustlers!
     
  7. queentswana

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    Brother, I love your thread and your mentality about this situation. I mean, what you say and how you think is really nothing for anyone here to get upset over or about. You my friend are living proof of the segment of us that have been infected with the "white man's mind". I know that you came from a woman, but obviously you've forgotton that and as such, lost your respect for them in general. Sure, there's a lot of sisters out there with the "white woman's mentality also", and obviously those are the ones that you're feeding off of.

    Cause to keep this real...a Black Woman, if she's really indeed a Black Woman, would blow your darn brains out for perpetrating being a black man. You may have the frame of a Black Man but your mentality and heart is that of a child...and we all know "TRICKS ARE FOR KIDS" !! Have a Good Day !!
     
  8. NNQueen

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    Having given much thought to the difference between "stupid" and "ignorant", I will give you the benefit of the doubt and label these comments of yours extremely ignorant. You make it sound as though you're proud of being a "playa", which now makes me wonder what your definition of that word is and why you would consider it laughable to be played.

    Whatever it is you "think" you see as far as me being played is neither here nor there. In other words, it's not relevant to this discussion. Still, thanks for the suggestion about writing a book, but I think I'll pass on it. I think you might be more competent writing one on that subject than I would be.

    And finally, why does it matter whether this is the 60s or now? What difference does it make to the way that Black people treat each other? Are you implying that younger Black people today are less deserving of quality relationships than back when I was in my 20s?

    I firmly believe sir that people aren't being "played/pimped" because they want to be. People in my generation and today, are looking for pretty much the same things--love and quality compansionship. If you, however, get involved in relationships for reasons other than those, then I would strongly hope that you are a rare individual who stands alone in that regard.

    It seems that you have become so desensitized by whatever is going on in your environment as a young Black man that you no longer have compassion for the women you're with. If that's the case, then you must be one of those men that Brother Kemestry so frequently talks about...Mookie. *shudder* And if you're familiar with this community, by now you should know that Kemestry is a Kappa too and I would hope he would say that you don't speak for him nor do you represent his fraternity in the best way.

    Lucky for us both though, I am awake and paying very close attention to your reaction to what I write here for you may not realize how instrumental you might be to helping our sisters, young and old, to heal from and get past dysfunctional relationships. I hope that all my sisters who read this will recognize the type of man to stay away from. That, sir, is the best lesson learned, so thank you for your contribution to this discussion.
     
  9. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Users never win.
    They are selfish,self serving,manipulative cold hearted individuals that wallow in their own self pity.
    They are pathetic preying mammals that slither like snakes ,camaflouged ,empty, lonely,sad,weak, little people.
     
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    this is the mentality of a wild animal in the jungle and not that of a human being.
     
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