This post seems to have been over looked...
I asked a very important question in this post, by all means, I would like to hear thoughts on that question...
I asked a very important question in this post, by all means, I would like to hear thoughts on that question...
I got the thought of starting this thread from the "Tiger Woods and his white wife" thread.
I have always had these thoughts but the thread enticed me to go ahead and just say it, just a post a thread on my thoughts to this matter but we have so many black people here at Destee who talk the talk, but don't do the walk entirely. We can't sit here and blame the victim just because we are now conscious and they (the victim) is taking to long to catch up with us.
Typical stereotypes of a black men.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061206070537AAKG8m9"dumb, deprived, dangerous, deviant, and disturbed”
"Strong
Confident
Alpha male
Will have sex with any girl...non discriminatory in that sense
Unique"
"um, they date white girls, quit often"
"has some one they call a baby's mama.
drink cool aid.
listen to rap.
braid their hair.
have large *****.
are good in bed.
address their friends as their "dogs" or "boys"
usually drives a maxima
lives at home with their mother over the age of 30"
Words of a white woman
"Don't know about general stereotypes, but when I think of a black man I think of :
handsomeness, sex appeal, intelligence, style, beautiful voice, loyalty, values, strength, determination, intellectual and athletic skills, willpower and pride.
I really wish every man was black"
I will touch on all of these and particularly words of a white woman.
These stereotypes seem to more so attract white women to black men and the way that white women deal with black men is to look forward to the stereotype. The one about black men being confident, most of them are so that stereotype is partially true. However a large portion of black men show this confidence to white women, more than they do black women, why is this?
Also, I think it is pretty scary that a white woman can get a good black man and it all started out as her being interested in him because a positive stereotype proved to be true.
Positive stereotype being, large penis, good in bed, confident, dates a lot of white women etcetera, you all get what I am saying.
What is even scarier is that the black man actually thinks his relationship with the white woman is based true love.
Question:, does it matter how love is achieved, as long as love is achieved? I am not talking about love for people as people/humans... I am talking about love as in a life together with a significant other, building a family, making love only to each other, sharing finances, looking out for each other etcetera, etcetera.
Astrologer4U