People here get to hide behind the screen and their own ignorance. I have noticed a particular unwillingness to do ones homework when encouraged to do so.
Our reall failure was thinking that when we got a degree, decent job, house, car and boat that we had arrived. We then abandoned all the things that got us there. Once our family structure was destroyed, failure was inevitable. I blame the destruction of the family mostly on the delusions of the feminist movement. The phrase, 'we aint gotta take it no mo'. Is an oxymoron. It begs the question, do you actually think I havent been taking stuff from you as well? We stopped looking at the fact that both sides were still behind the 8 ball. Marriage being a rarity today is proof of the destruction
If you have information to share then share the information. The back handed insults and supercilious attitude is unnecessary and a complete waste of my time.
As much as I detest white women, I cannot ignore fact: the feminist movement is/was a very legitimate movement. Perhaps you should abandon your 'ignorance' and look into how white women lived, and were treated during the Victorian era before the women's rights movement got established. As far as I'm concerned, white men deserve to get their testicles nailed to wall all day long by feminists- It is their monster which they created. However I refused to go along with the anti- feminist black men's rhetoric of
'black women just wanted to be seen' as the reason the feminist movement gained such a huge following amongst black women. Something wasn't right, someone was being not heard, and until we get to the core issue- we will just keep going around in circles and repeating the same pattern, leaving room for another foreign ideology to successfully infiltrate any black centered movement seeking to improve lives of blacks globally.
that's how i look at the situation...
And this marriage as the magic pill which cures all ails ideology is complete bullocks. A Marriage is doomed to failure
(see the divorce rates amongst whites, oh wait maybe that's feminists fault) if both parties have psychological and emotional issues THEY HAVE BEING CONDITIONED TO IGNORE.
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