- Aug 28, 2015
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We are all aware of the stereotypical Angry Black Man/Woman trope played out in movies, television, and all other manners of media.
Black folks just being mad all the time for no reason at all, which is completely false, but white folks love that stereotype, because it diminishes the validity of the many things we rightfully should be angry about.
Although it annoys me when white folks do this, it hurts really bad when it comes from within us. When AA men or women buy into the Angry Black Man/Woman trope, I can't understand why they don't understand the realities of what exactly is going on.
I don't expect my brothers to be out and about skinnin' and grinnin' at all times. I know what life is like for them, because I experience it, too. So, I don't take it personal, that they may be having one of those days. And, I wonder if it occurs to them that I experience racism, too, from the very same people, and I am only 5'4" tall, so those people can take it to a whole 'nother level with me that they wouldn't dare take it with you.
When a AA man lays that Angry Black Woman trope on me, because I ain't bowling over with happiness like Becky 24/7, I wonder how shallow he could be, to not realize my world ain't sunnier than his.
Yes, I have learned to smile through it all.... most of the time. But, if you catch me on one of those days when YT decided to wait on Becky before me, even though I was standing in front of the cash regester before her....I might not be as cheerful as you want me to be. And, it has nothing to do with you.
*smile*
"Ever since I realized there waz someone callt/
a colored girl an evil woman a ***** or a nag/
i been tryin not to be that & leave bitterness/
in somebody else's cup...”
― Ntozake Shange, for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf
Black folks just being mad all the time for no reason at all, which is completely false, but white folks love that stereotype, because it diminishes the validity of the many things we rightfully should be angry about.
Although it annoys me when white folks do this, it hurts really bad when it comes from within us. When AA men or women buy into the Angry Black Man/Woman trope, I can't understand why they don't understand the realities of what exactly is going on.
I don't expect my brothers to be out and about skinnin' and grinnin' at all times. I know what life is like for them, because I experience it, too. So, I don't take it personal, that they may be having one of those days. And, I wonder if it occurs to them that I experience racism, too, from the very same people, and I am only 5'4" tall, so those people can take it to a whole 'nother level with me that they wouldn't dare take it with you.
When a AA man lays that Angry Black Woman trope on me, because I ain't bowling over with happiness like Becky 24/7, I wonder how shallow he could be, to not realize my world ain't sunnier than his.
Yes, I have learned to smile through it all.... most of the time. But, if you catch me on one of those days when YT decided to wait on Becky before me, even though I was standing in front of the cash regester before her....I might not be as cheerful as you want me to be. And, it has nothing to do with you.
*smile*
"Ever since I realized there waz someone callt/
a colored girl an evil woman a ***** or a nag/
i been tryin not to be that & leave bitterness/
in somebody else's cup...”
― Ntozake Shange, for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf