Black People : Is it important to get the last word?

[chuck]

lol...I'm not married...but I let the guy I'm seeing get the last word...but the look in my eyes and face makes the final decision.

 

[Chevron Dove]

I notice when talking, debating, arguing, with people whether on here or in real life...Some people always feel like they have to have the last word.

For example...at the end of a coversation between a person and myself it will go like this...

ME: "Okay, well I'm done with this conversation. Bye."

THEM: "Well, I still think...blah blah blah..."

ME: "Okay.."

THEM: "Like I said...blah blah blah..."

ME: I get it!

THEM: "I also feel that.....blah blah blah."

ME: " OKAY!"

THEM: "Okay!" WINNER! By means of having last word!)

Is it important that you get the last word?

Do you feel like getting the last word in proves that you've won the conversation?

Why do you feel it's important to get the last word in?

If you don't feel it's important, why don't you feel it's not important?

lol!

I don't feel it's important to have the last word, but I just push, sometimes, to have my point heard, but sometimes find myself in a debate with someone that I feel they just want to have the last word no matter what, and then I try to find a way to let them have their ego trip, without comprimising my beliefs.